I'm sorry, but I just don't date bi-sexuals. I see nothing wrong with gay people or bi-sexuals and, as a matter of fact, my only brother is actually gay. However, having grown up around him and his friends, having talked to bi-sexuals before, and so on and so forth, I know that a true bi-sexual can never be content with just one gender. There will always be something that the person they are with simply cannot give them or show them or express to them in a way that the other gender can, and due to that, they
will always feel like something is missing and their partner will always be in fear and/or feel like they can never be that person's "enough." In addition, it's too risky for someone like me to be involved with a bi-sexual and, I'll be honest, it makes me uncomfortable, too. Knowing that a woman I could potentially be with is actually sexually attracted and can physically "be" with another woman. It just does. I have no problem if the woman I am with can look at a woman and say, "Yeah, she's an attractive woman" but she cannot think or ever desire more than that or have other thoughts pop into her head. It just weirds me out. Honestly, the only men who are going to be okay with a bi-sexual woman are bi-sexual men because they're going to be able to relate. Straight men may SAY they're okay with it, but when it comes down to it, no straight GOOD man wants to feel like the woman he is with is also checking out other women or perhaps even having them in their thoughts sexually. The only ones who are into that probably want three-ways and are skeezoids.
As a side note, I've never met a bi-sexual person in their mid 30s on up. Ever. Or a previously bi person who was older who could even fathom that they ever desired the sex that they ended up not choosing. So, believe it or not, one day all bi-sexuals will not only choose, but at that time they won't even be able to conceive that they ever liked the sex that they did NOT choose.
Anyway, all I know, as a straight man, is that I could never be comfortable with it and would always feel like there was something I couldn't give that person and that at any minute they could start playing for the other team and that I was just a transition phase or something. And my heart simply cannot risk that kind of gamble. I'm old enough and am ready enough to know that I want and need something with a person who KNOWS exactly what they want and like and the sheer definition of bi-sexuality means they would not fit in with what I need. Period.
