I recently had an ex-friend (I blocked her--I thought she was just way too weird--and for me to say that's a BIG thing. LOL) throw a hissy because I said it was completely natural and beneficial if a father took part in a female child's normal upbringing, like when she's little also help with feeding, diapers, bathing, etc., and for some reason she was completely against things like that concerning female children, especially bathing. Now, call me crazy, but since when did society get so inclined to thinking that a father taking care of his own kid automatically meant he was some kind of potential pedophile? Seriously, people. That's just whacked. Also, it is my belief that not only is it a "responsible" thing to do to share in the responsibilities of taking care of children, whether they're male "or" female, but only allowing one gender to do certain things when they're really little might cause the child to bond more with one partner over the other. Anyway, that whole conversation with her just got me so irked, it was almost like a slap in the face to all men...like she was saying there's always a possibility that any male who washes a 2 year old little girl or something is instantly going to snap and go all pedo on her or something. Give me a freaking BrEaK! Is this what society has come to? Where just because a guy has a penis he's automatically labeled as some kind of sicko? I mean, when you're little you don't think about those kinds of things, and if a male is normal he's not going to EITHER. It's his own freaking kid, for God's sake. When I was little I was washed by both of my parents, and didn't think it was weird when my mom washed me even though she had different "parts", and didn't think it was weird when my dad washed me even though he had the same parts. Many adults seem to forget that when you're little nothing down there is related to sex, just peeing.
Some men are just more nurturing than others and like to participate. Period. So, seriously...do all women think like my ex-friend nowadays due to the negative media influences, or is she truly as whacked as I think she is?
