I like people who try to educate themselves, especially considering the purpose of education is to get you to think beyond yourself. 

IMO, if a person can’t speak without using the f-word, they can't speak.

I want someone who can instinctively distinguish between the elevated and the degraded, and if a person needs to ask what that that means, then they just aren’t there yet.

Intimately, I’m more traditional.  So if a woman is looking for some kind of freak or someone who is going to demean and disrespect them in the bedroom once a relationship reaches that level, there’s millions of  sleazebags out there who would be more than happy to accommodate them, but I’m not one of them.