Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Real LIVE DATES!

According to a book I recently read, communication is 60% nonverbal (Via body language) and has five times more impact than verbal communication, which means if a person tries to get to know someone online only they’re only getting 40% of the person.  Therefore, if a person can't go on an actual real life date after talking to me for a few days online, then that person is obviously too socially awkward for me to be interested in them and they’re going to miss 60% of how I, or anyone for that matter, happens to communicate.  So, please, be serious, logical, and open about meeting people if you're thinking of contacting someone, okay?  I realize that online dating makes a lot of people feel safe and more secure, but it’s that same thing that makes you lose more than ½ of the human factor.  Getting the more positive aspects out of life and getting what you want is about being more involved in real life, not the electronic one.