The physical, by no means, is what you fall in love with. It's what causes the initial attraction, though, since you don't walk across the room to talk to someone unless you like what you see, right? So, in case you're wondering, this is what I like to look at.
Hair: It doesn't matter to me, as long as her hair goes with her face. Not every woman can get away with a bobbed haircut or something cutesy if she doesn't have long hair, so as long as it matches and works, then that's all that is important to me. Shade doesn’t matter to me as long as it is ONE color. However, with that said, I do prefer looking at straight hair. It's also MUCH easier to put your fingers through if you want to touch it. LOL.
Ears: It varies depending on the woman. I don’t mind larger ears at all, actually, so I don’t have much of a preference.
Nose: It depends on the woman. Some women actually look better with thicker noses or longer noses, so it all depends.
Teeth: Don't have to be perfect perfect, because mine aren't (I had two teeth snap back AFTER braces! Ugh!), but can't be a chaotic mess either. I do prefer whiter shades, which is a lot more easily obtainable than people think.
Hands: It doesn’t matter, but I admit I do like women who have the same size or smaller hands than I do. It feels kind of weird holding on to a woman's hands that are bigger than mine are.
Skin: I do prefer paler skin, but I suppose I could date women with some tan/mocha-like skin. I guess I'd just have to see. I'm not into black skin, though. Sorry--I'm just not. I also don’t like tattoos. BUT I may make an exception for the right person but, overall, I’m not into them. I have a new rule about that, actually. Although I would prefer a woman with no tattoos, if a woman has 1 or 2 SMALL tattoos and they are NOT in places I like to look at nude and are NOT tacky and she does NOT want any more, I would consider it. But I am going to be very particular about that. The way I see it is....they're things that I would have to put up with seeing for the rest of my life if I ended up with her, so they better be something I can deal with. Also, I'm not a fan of piercings. Sorry. If a woman has them on her ears or her navel, that's fine. But anywhere else? Sorry..just distracting or weird to me.
Height: From 4 ft 11 to about 5 ft 9.
Weight: Although I would prefer a woman who weighs the same as me or smaller, since I'm a thin male and this is America we're talking about here and we now have the highest average weight and the most overweight and obese people on the planet, when in Rome, I know I may have to adapt. So, I have made the 30 pound rule. To be comfortable with both myself and the other person I end up with, I would prefer that I do not weigh 30 pounds more than she does, or that she does not weigh more than 30 pounds than I do. It's also body dependent. Some people can pull off larger weights without looking like a Weeble, and others cannot. So, it really all depends and is on a case by case basis.
Breasts: Okay. Hmmm...doesn't really matter I suppose. As long as she doesn't just have “just” nipples and nothing else—no signs of bumps at ALL, or they're so large they look freakish I guess I'm okay with that part.
Hair maintenance: Okay, you're going to laugh at this one, but I must be honest. If a woman looks like a man I'm SO not going to be attracted to her. Things that are no-nos in Brent's book: Underarm hair, leg hair, hair above a woman's lip, facial hair, dark forearm hair (Light blonde or something to where it looks like it's not there is okay), hair around nipples, a happy trails line, lower back hair, and any other various places that aren't considered feminine are major turn-offs to me. I once dated a woman who had a happy trails line....and a big one, too....and you can guarantee that I broke out the razor and said..."I don't care if you are afraid that it'll grow back darker, you look like a dude in a bikini." So....she fussed a little bit, but once I did it she realized it looked OH so much better. It's funny how sometimes one simple fix can be the difference between night and day visually. Now pubic hair, believe it or not, and maybe it’s just because it’s my age, but I actually like to see at least a “tiny” bit so I feel like I’m with a girl who actually has passed puberty. I definitely am not into women that have so much hair down there that they look like they have a Chia pet or they’re a 1970’s Playboy playmate, but the whole “entirely bald” look just seems too juvenile and I would PREFER that they at least had some tiny little patch of some sort to make me know I'm with a woman and not a girl. Anyway, both of those are just too extreme. There’s something to be said for balance. Yeah, I know, you're laughing at me now, aren't you? LOL
Butt: It has to match her shape. If it's so big she can't fit through a doorway then, no, that's not going to be attractive to me.
Okay, that's all I can think of right now. LOL
