Monday, September 5, 2011

Denial is More Than a River (And yes, I know it's spelled differently)

EGADS--Yet again, I met ANOTHER woman online who has had sex with women multiple times for "experimentation purposes" and thinks she's not bi or gay. 
 
Okay, so...this is NEVER going to happen (YUCK!!!  I am SO straight!!!) but if I had a friend named John or something, and we hung out at the beach and then later decided to go back to his place and give each other blow jobs, somehow that's magically NOT gay in the state of Florida?  Because if the same rule applies to men as it does women, then I guess that's what it means.  Really?  Wow.  
 
Holy crap this state is whacked.  I need to move to a place where people aren't in such denial about what they're doing.  I don't care if you're straight, gay, or bi, but for goodness sakes, just be honest with yourselves, will you?  I'm a straight man looking for a straight woman.  And straight woman means, and it has always meant, a woman who doesn't think that her having sex with other women is something that a straight person could do or who wants to do it.  If I wanted a bi girl, I'd date one, but I do NOT.  Trust me--with my soft skin and girly eyes and eyelashes, I'm sure they would think I'd be a good transition for them.  UGH!
 
I mean, as I've mentioned countless times, If it's pre-puberty or during the early stages of puberty then it's understandable because then you're either too young to have hormones or your hormones are so out of whack and you're so confused what to do with them you're not thinking clearly yet, but as an actual fully-grown adult...if you can do that....you're either bi or gay, at least at the TIME you are doing those things.  To do those things as an adult you have to be sexually attracted to them to be able to do that kind of thing, and the sheer definition of bi-sexuality or being gay IS the ability to be sexually attracted to your own gender.  Period!  

Wow.  Just plain wow.