It amazes me how some women who are older are disgusted when an older man dates or marries a younger woman or even looks at younger women, even if as early as their mid to late teens as long as they're developed for their age.
So, for those ladies who are disturbed by this, let me ask you a question...since men can reproduce until they're dead, don't you ladies think that's genetically ground into us due to thousands upon thousands of years of biological programming? To look for women in their prime reproductive years?
Say, for example, situations were REVERSED. Say men could no longer produce sperm after the age of 51 (Average age of menopause for a woman) but women could have children until they're old and gray. Don't you think that would make women start looking at men in THEIR prime reproductive years if their biology was trying to get them to mate and reproduce? Just something to think about.
I mean, physiological differences can easily be why this is happening. It's not that we're "sick" or pervy, but, rather that we have thousands and thousands of years of evolutionary programming ground into us telling us why we should be looking for signs of puberty, potential motherhood, etc., etc., and it doesn't stop for US because, unlike you ladies, we can make babies up until we die! So why WOULDN'T we, at ANY age, be looking at women who are biologically "women"?
This would be why it's so difficult for women to relate to this mindset. As you age, your need and ability to have children decreases. Ours may decrease a tad bit with less hormones, but the desire is still there.
Also, I know that it's horrible and I definitely do NOT condone this, but why do you think men cheat with younger women? It's because they're often times more attracted to them because they're closer to the prime years of reproduction. You can't be ticked off at the ATTRACTION because they're younger. Because that's genetically ground into a male until he dies. You can only be ticked off at the cheating. But the attraction to those types is always going to be there due to how we can reproduce even when we're old and gray. It just is.
It doesn't make us sick, it just makes us male. There's a difference.
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