Okay, I am beginning to see why a lot of people on online dating sites are still single. I mean...I don't know...maybe it's because I was raised in another time and another place, but it seems as though people nowadays seriously have no idea how to communicate and also work things out.
I just have these 3 simple rules, and they are SO easy and should be no-brainers, but apparently they're things that just aren't being taught to people. 1. If we start talking, if you don't like or agree with something I said, work it out with me. Don't just stop talking and drop off the planet. That's rude, and just leaves a guy with a question mark over his head. In real life, you don't just stop talking in the middle of a conversation, turn around and walk away most of the time, right?
You wouldn't want that done to you, so why do that to someone else? In addition, by not working things out, it would show a man that you wouldn't have great handling skills, meaning you could easily dart from something serious without trying to work things out. Remember, online dating is a sample for what a person may see from someone in "real life." Don't think all men are dumb. We're not. Us smart ones will easily pick up on stuff like that.
2. I expect a woman to know what she wants. If she doesn't, she shouldn't be trying to find someone until she finds herself.
3. I expect her to know how to have a conversation. This isn't the all about you show, ladies. Pretend it's like a ping pong game. If you don't ask about HIS life as much as he asks about yours, any man is going to end up losing interest. Ladies, remember how nice it feels when a man pays attention to you and shows interest in your life? Don’t you think he'd also like to feel that way? So make it a game…he serves, then you serve…back and forth. That's the only way to establish mutual interest and keep the fire burning.
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