Have you ever noticed how people have a tendency to think someone is being judgmental or bitter because that person bluntly says what they do and do not like?
I don't think I agree with that. I don't think it means someone is judgmental or bitter when they express their likes and dislikes, I just think it means they have enough life experience to know what works for them and what doesn't.
Is that really a bad thing? I don't think so. In my eyes, that means a person knows themselves well enough and has sampled life enough to figure out what kind of person they'd get along with better than others. Those people should be commended, not admonished.
For those who haven't come to that realization about themselves, I don't really think those people are ready for a real relationship yet.
After all, you can't really know others unless you really know yourself, am I right? Anyway, it's just something to think about.
I have seen way too many people on singles sites and out in real life who are obviously still learning about themselves and haven't reached the pinnacle of life yet where they know what would be good for them and what would not.
Is it fair to bring someone else into your life to share that life with them if you're still trying to figure out what it is that makes you happy and what it is that makes you sad?
I really don't think it is.
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